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Years ago…
Read more: Years ago……our boss had asked me and a colleague to jointly shortlist potential partners for a major project. After a week, we reviewed the shortlist with the boss. At…
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“Many managers have this backward.”
Read more: “Many managers have this backward.”If an employee is great at something, do you give them more of the same assignments? Or do you pro-actively find other assignments to stretch and stimulate them?…
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“A different perspective – 10 years later.”
Read more: “A different perspective – 10 years later.”I used to ask my 18-year son how his day was, whenever I picked him up from school. But in the last few years, his answers have mostly…
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“The most important lesson I learned.”
Read more: “The most important lesson I learned.”I am in KL with 3 school friends from more than half a lifetime ago for a long weekend of Euro Championship football, great food and most importantly,…
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A friend unexpectedly…
Read more: A friend unexpectedly……but happily left a job recently. The trigger? He left work one day at his old company an hour earlier than the stipulated time. He’d come in very…
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Lessons from a 7-year old.
Read more: Lessons from a 7-year old.My daughter did not have a regular recess partner for her first 2 months of Primary 1. While classmates had paired up or formed cliques on Day 1,…
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What is your North Star ⭐️?
Read more: What is your North Star ⭐️?On holiday in Taiwan in May, the geek in me was thrilled to find a 660-ton pendulum near the top of the Taipei 101, once the world’s tallest…
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Weak in math but strong in football
Read more: Weak in math but strong in football“If my son is weak in math but strong in football, should I arrange one-on-one training for math or football?”, a friend asked. Do we focus on strengths…
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Of showers and whistling …
Read more: Of showers and whistling …Last night I heard something that always brings a smile to my face but which I don’t mindfully acknowledge enough. One daily exercise I learned from a mindfulness…
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When Beliefs and Behaviours Collide
Read more: When Beliefs and Behaviours CollideMy parents left China pre-WW2, met and married in Singapore. Over 17 years, my mother gave birth to 9 children. My parents’ belief was that more children =…